Like it, but you need to know why.

when she was having grilled fish with her friends in the canteen last night, she picked up the coke in front of her and took a long hiccup and asked this question.

I didn't catch her sudden "sadness" for a moment, and I was still thinking about how to answer this question more seriously. She said:

"forget it, you don't understand."

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koala would like to see my story from reader to intern and clutter. It took me one night to look through the things related to clutter over the years, and another two days to express my "love" for clutter in nearly 3000 words.

it's just that from today's point of view, I thought it was clear that I joined the clutter "because of love" three months ago.

but in fact, I have been "lazy" all the time.

keep thinking about topic selection and holding topic selection meetings, and then begin to write the first draft, revise it, and then revise it;

after the beginning of the term, the school company ran at both ends and did not grind out a passable article for more than a month.

then, at the end of the full day, I received a second message from Liu Bai reminding me that I had a "bit of a problem" recently.

at that moment, several thoughts flashed through my mind about "so tired", "giving up" and "not suitable".

the next thing that comes to mind is what Tai Yi said at the topic selection meeting: " it seems that people who come in just because they 'like' won't last long.

I was impressed by this sentence because at that time, as a "person who came in because I liked it," I didn't agree with her; and it suddenly came to my mind, probably because the thought of giving up one second made me feel guilty.

so I went back to the question that I had not been able to answer and had been deliberately ignored: why do I like clutter?

what makes you like something?

finding a reason to like something can be very simple.

because with my memories of the past six years, I can say a lot: messy words can always help me write out my troubles, clutter often gives me a different way of thinking, and even the messy surroundings are beautiful.

but it can also be difficult.

for example, the reasons listed above are all superficial and are very detailed points, but often we are looking for a "kernel" that can summarize all of them;

for example, although I have listed some reasons, these reasons are not enough to support me to stay in clutter.

until I received that month's intern salary + 5000 yuan for performance, which is worth my living expenses for two months, after I could generously treat friends to milk tea and family to morning tea, I suddenly felt that I liked clutter a little more.

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it's interesting that when we talk about "like", we always seem to consciously avoid reality.

so when I look for reasons I like, I focus on the emotional level, but ignore the fact that emotions change with emotions.

for example, when I wrote until 12:00 in the evening the day before yesterday, I was very tired and wanted to give up; yesterday I was killed, it was very difficult, and I wanted to give up; today's tweet data is not good, I am good at food, and I want to give up.

and I will find that, in addition to the happiness brought to me by my salary, the afternoon before the Mid-Autumn Festival holiday, I received moon cakes for the first time in the company's Mid-Autumn Festival Tuan Jianzhong, and I also got personal prizes in the game.