Our tacit understanding is that we don't talk about wages.

where is the company; how long is the commute; what position is it? what are the benefits?

after sending a few messages, I typed out "how much is your salary for this job?"

before I typed the sentence in its entirety, I immediately regretted it.

so the sentence sent out later became "are you tired in your new job?"

my friend replied to me every few minutes, but did not answer my previous questions.

she just replied to a Doraemon meme and said, "I'm so happy that someone will ask me if I'm tired, not how much I earn." At that moment, I felt a little guilty.

I have to admit that I am curious about her salary, and I also have the mentality of "wanting to compare".

just a moment before I sent it, I realized that there were some questions I didn't need to ask.

this kind of "unnecessary" is not "most will get perfunctory false answers", but "once asked, you may hurt yourself".

We have never thought about why we should compare with others.

probably at a sensible age, I first heard my mother say, "look, Aunt Li's sister is better than you."

it seems that we have acquiesced since childhood-we can prove our worth by comparing the results of winning or losing.

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is "I don't want to bear the consequences of being compared, so I just don't want to compete with you."

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is "I don't want to bear the consequences of being compared, so I just don't want to compete with you."

is "I don't want to bear the consequences of being compared, so I just don't want to compete with you."

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