Some people fall in love in the "996 mode".
We all need "moderate withdrawal".
my friend A Tong sat in front of me and flipped the phone screen to the desktop.
in her story, she and her boyfriend's company are not far away, so she moved to a compromise neighborhood to live together.
but originally holding the idea of "so we can get bored together every day", she also began to worry about "being bored together every day."
every day, they make an appointment to meet at the subway station and go home together, then eat together, play games together, and even sleep with the lights out. Once the lights are turned off, they can no longer play mobile phones.
"even going out to dinner with you this time is on the premise that he is coming to pick me up at 10:30."
I laughed at her for punching herself in the face: "that's not what you told me when you first fell in love." You said you were both clingy, so you must be comfortable together. "
but I know that A Tong doesn't dislike her boyfriend.
it's just that her mother, who has been solo for almost 25 years and has long been used to being alone, found that "love" is not as easy to balance as she thought.
after all, falling in love is a "007" thing by default-
there is no "off work", no "vacation", unless you "quit" if you want to break away from this identity.
some people fall in love in the "996" mode.
A Peng is one of the few boys I know who can stay up all night playing computer games with friends after falling in love.
he and his girlfriend have been together since college and have been talking about it for almost five years now.
also experienced countless quarrels and contradictions about "time allocation". They later agreed to learn from Internet companies and turn love into "996"--
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"moderate withdrawal". I saw it in an article about the "intimacy cycle".
that is, only a proper pause can make the relationship more lasting and more difficult to become a "broken rubber band".
because I also know that someone will be better suited to other patterns or have their own unique way of getting along.
this sentence is translated to mean:
I also try to apply Ah Peng's "996 Love Law" to get along with my boyfriend.